• Choose It…Use It…
    Recognized how jazzed you get when it seems like things are working out.  Feel the excitement in your heart when you take a step forward, and your foot miraculously lands on the never-before-seen, could-never-be-anticipated path.  Really feel it.  Feel it … Continue reading
  • Be Free Where You Are
    Today is the day.  The only day.  Release your worries about what might happen.  Release your regrets about what you should have done yesterday.  Be here, now.  Do what you know you must.  In this moment, you are free.  What … Continue reading
  • Welcome Back
    You can always come back.  Wherever your thoughts take you, you can always come back, re-ground yourself, and start anew.  The isn’t anything that you do that’s a waste of time, especially if you choose to see regret or discomfort … Continue reading
  • Ask and It Is Given
    You already know what to do.  You might not hit the nail on the head the first time.  But every miss is essential.  You’re getting closer.  You’re learning what will work.  Keep going.  Look inside.  Ask for guidance.  You’re on … Continue reading
  • Hook Into Love
    Today I choose to exist at a higher vibration, recognizing that succumbing to pettiness and annoyance, or hooking into someone else’s fear will not serve me.  I choose something better for myself.  I am free.

3 Easy Steps to Bust Relationship Anxiety

What’s it like to be in the thick of relationship anxiety?   Not only is the honeymoon over but it’s like you’ve returned from that honeymoon to a landscape you don’t even recognize with a travel companion who looks like a stranger. You find yourself standing on Mars, reaching to touch the face of someone…

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On Being Alone

Call it solitude. And it sounds like something you require, like a meal, or a nap. Solitude sounds spiritual, grounded and strong. Like a choice. It sounds rich and luxurious, even though it’s essential for our creativity, our relationships and our well being.   We are communal animals. And with so many of us living…

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Dark Side of Competition

If the Olympics have shown us anything, it’s that a little competition is a good thing. The television ratings are high. We get inspired. Maybe they even get us jazzed about pushing ourselves to try something new. Judo, anyone?   Just like an Olympic athlete who sheds seconds off her time in heat of the…

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Hitting Bottom

To know if you’ve hit bottom, you don’t have to be the cokehead who drives to your dealer’s house with your kids in the backseat.  Bottom is a unique destination for everyone.  And you don’t even need to have a harrowing experience to get there. Whether you’ve got the disease of substance abuse or your…

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Be Nice

Nice gals finish first?   Clichés have us thinking that if you’re kind and thoughtful, you definitely won’t end up in the corner office.  But there is a benefit to being benevolent. Nice gals don’t necessarily finish last.   A friend of mine was looking for help.  Her nanny had left with not much notice…

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